Leading A Productive Life After A Traumatic Experience
Traumatic events are powerful things in anyone’s life. Trauma can change someone completely for the better or worse. People who have undergone a traumatic experience such as a natural disaster, shooting, a car accident, plane crash, etc. can often experience an aftershock of the events that are usually intense and confusing. This is because the person can feel like they are at that moment over and over again for a very long time. However, there is life after a traumatic event. Persons who have experienced such traumas must learn to live good lives even after the said incident. So, how can you rebuild a good life after the trauma?
Understand That The Past Is The Past
When dealing with traumatic events, it’s important for people to remember that the past is set in stone. It cannot be changed. Even though the memory of the trauma will live on, we shouldn’t let it define who we are. Since the mind records everything that happens in your life, acts of violence and disaster tend to haunt us for a long time. However, studying prayer, meditation or spirituality can help focus your mind better.
This is one of the most difficult things for anyone to do. Especially for those who have been involved in acts of violence. This might be a hard step, but it is necessary. When someone goes through a traumatic event, they can hate and resent the person/s involved. This resentment, anger, and hate can take over your heart and mind to the extent that it’s all you think about. Holding on to the resentment and pain does more damage than the trauma itself since it eats you away like a cancer. Forgiving the person isn’t about them deserving it; it’s about you deserving it.
There is no power like that of positivity. A positive person cannot be brought down by other people. It’s therefore crucial for someone to surround themselves with positive vibes only during this period. More so, those who have gone through traumatic events and come out the other side. Having this sort of people around you gives zest to life. You get encouraged by seeing that it’s possible to have a normal happy life after a trauma.